The Key Elements of Invitation Wording & Style Examples

The Key Elements of Invitation Wording

No matter your theme or tone, every wedding invitation should include certain key details to ensure clarity and elegance. These are the non-negotiables that answer your guests’ most important questions and prevent endless “What time is it again?” messages.

Here’s your must-have checklist:

• The Hosts: Who is hosting or paying for the wedding? Traditionally, this was the bride’s parents, but it’s now common for both sets of parents — or the couple themselves — to be listed.
• The Request Line: This is the phrase that officially invites guests. For example:
  “request the honour of your presence” (for a religious ceremony) or
  “request the pleasure of your company” (for a civil or casual event).
• The Couple’s Names: The stars of the show! Traditionally, the bride’s name appears first, followed by the groom’s.
• The Date and Time: Always spell them out for a timeless, elegant feel.
  Example: “Saturday, the fifteenth of June, Two thousand and twenty-five, at half past four in the afternoon.”
• The Venue: Include the full name and address of the ceremony location.
• Reception Details: Let your guests know what happens next — whether it’s cocktails, dinner, or dancing. You can include this on the main card or as a separate insert.

Tip: Consistency matters. Match your wording tone with your wedding style — formal, semi-formal, or casual — to create a cohesive experience from the first impression.

Wording Examples for Every Style

Seeing these elements in action helps you understand how to bring your own invitation text to life. Below are two popular examples that showcase different tones:

Traditional Wording (Hosted by the Bride’s Parents)

Mr. and Mrs. David Miller  
request the honour of your presence  
at the marriage of their daughter  
Charlotte Anne  
to  
Mr. James Robert Clark  
Saturday, the fifteenth of June  
Two thousand and twenty-five  
at half past four in the afternoon  
The Grand Cathedral  
123 Church Street  
Toronto, Ontario

Modern Wording (Hosted by the Couple)

Together with their families  
Charlotte Miller  
and  
James Clark  
invite you to celebrate their marriage  
Saturday, June 15, 2025  
at 4:30 in the afternoon  
The Lakeside Loft  
456 Waterfront Avenue, Toronto  
Dinner and dancing to follow
 

Why Wording Matters

Notice the difference? The traditional version is more formal, detailed, and ceremonial, while the modern example is concise, warm, and conversational. These subtle changes can completely shift the tone of your event — helping your printed wedding cards reflect your unique story and style.

Quick Tip: If you’re blending cultures or languages, consider including both versions on separate cards or sides — it’s a thoughtful touch that honours everyone involved.